Looking to meet new people without the pressure of dating apps or the chaos of packed dance floors?

This night is all about relaxed, low key connection with like minded souls – no scripts, no speed rounds, just space to be.

The ‘Social Mixer Edition’ of Speed Mating is our most informal gathering yet. Unlike our structured events, this one celebrates freedom: more time to chat, fewer formalities, and a warm, welcoming atmosphere where conversations can unfold naturally.

No timed rotations.
No formal icebreakers.
Just good music, open energy, and genuine connection.

Does this sound familiar?
– Tired of endless app chats that never lead anywhere meaningful?
– Not into hook up culture but still craving community?
– Want a space where you can show up as yourself and meet grounded, like minded men?

If you’re nodding along – this night was made for you.

What To Expect:

– Fun, feel good music, a lightly facilitated vibe, and optional conversation prompts on screen if you’d like a little nudge to get chatting.
– You’ll have two full hours to freely mingle, practise your social skills, and connect at your own pace.
– While this edition may especially suit those who already feel socially confident, it’s absolutely open to everyone.
– If you’re still building that confidence, come anyway – you’ll be supported, welcomed, and encouraged to take things at whatever pace feels right for you.

The Venue:

We’ll be gathering in the back bar of The Laird Hotel, one of Australia’s longest running gay owned venues. Once known as Melbourne’s iconic bear and leather bar, The Laird has evolved into a warm and inclusive meeting place for same sex attracted CIS and Trans men.

Event Details:

– The Laird Hotel – Back Bar
– Arrive by 6:45pm for a 7:00pm start
– Free tickets (bring a friend!) via Eventbrite until sold out

Please note:

– This is not a dating or hook up event. It’s about friendship, building social confidence, and finding your place in community – so please respect the vibe.
– Please make sure that if you book a ticket, actually turn up on the night. If you can’t make it, cancel your ticket so someone else can come along.

Come curious. Come open. Come ready to connect.